i have never head any mention of this specific quantity within stirling or model engine discussions.
so i thought i would put forward my view and see what the group consensus was.

There is no definitive rule for what the ratio should be, however as a guide i found this quote (referring to IC engines)
"The connecting rod is between roughly 1.4 and 2.2 times the stroke length" (1.6 is common for cars, often higher for racers)
There are various arguments for and against a qualitatively "long" or "short" rod,
people can google if they're interested in exploring the tradeoffs between the two.
But my conclusion is that a "long" stroke has the features suited to stirling engines
especially the small static ones that are the mainstay of this forum.
as shown in the example picture a long stroke has lesser lateral forces on the piston reducing friction and vibration, high priorities.
a longer rod also means that the pistons (inc displacer) will have greater dwell time at top and bottom which suits the stirlings operation,
and should increase efficiency, particularly at high rpm.
The downsides being that being long also makes it taller which can have practical disadvantages.
the increased dwell time also means increased acceleration going from top to bottom. which may limit rpm from higher pumping losses
it also means more care needed to keep the displacer light.
But the question remains... how does this information transfer into the stirling model world,
post what ratios you use in your models and if you have any experience in varying it.
is there an optimal or recommended rod ratio for a stirling?
Regards,
Sam